Everybody knows that the best way to make a child with a cold or flu better is to take them to the doctor - guaranteed the minute you step into the waiting room the child will be healed.
This principle can be applied in other areas too, it turns out.
All year Louisa has been begging for days off school - quite successfully - it turns out she had 36 days off last semester. (12 of them were the Laos trip - but still!)
Finally Roger and I decided that something hadto be done and duly made an appointment with the guidance officer to talk about sending her to Pine again or maybe homeschooling. These were not our first choices for two main reasons - orchestra and friends.
The music program at KGSC is brilliant - the teachers are dedicated and gifted, the kids are nice and the quality of the music is award winning.
And for the first time in her life Louisa has the opportunity to choose friends. This is a big deal - Pine is so small that you pretty much learn to get along with whoever else is there. That's a great skill and one that lots of people never learn. But learning to choose friends from a smorgasbord of friend choices is another skill - and not one to be missed.
So our first choice was keeping her at KGSC - but it was looking dire - we figured the time had come for some serious planning.
That did the trick - the very same week Louisa got better. She started to enjoy school and decided that she would like to stay - she even said she would like to go to the school dance. Since 'would like to' and 'school' have not been in the same sentence for Louisa so far we bought a new shirt and frangipani hair clips to celebrate. (It was a rainbow theme dance and Louisa chose yellow.) A pair of shoes borrowed from Joan and jeans and she was set. Jesse braided her hair and Roger took this picture when she came home after the dance. (I was away for the weekend and didn't want to miss out altogether.)
Apparently the dance was lots of fun but the music was a 'bit dodgy'. The unbearable gorgeousness that is Louisa continues.
We are very happy - and relieved.