Friday night was a stake dance with a 70's theme. Of course a certain amount of stress was involved - but in the end we came up with a great costume for Jess (blessings on St Vincent de Paul) and none for Alec - which was perfect since he was never going to wear a costume regardless of how good it was. This is a truly dreeadful photo - she actually looked gorgeous.
We have moved family scripture study to the dinner table - now we have scriptures right before dinner and it seems to help Max with his concentration levels. Well - it seemed that way for the first few days. On about day 4 he built this fork creation during scriptures - at least he was quiet.
To preserve this time in Max's life - a photo of Max in the laundry tub that he uses for a bath until the real bath finally goes in.
Sunday:
Max woke up with a stiff neck and a slightly more pronounced cough and a significantly more pronounced bad attitude. He thought that he really should stay home - I almost agreed, but since Sally (our Relief Society President) was in hospital I had to go. So I slowly dressed Max and then got myself ready, left the house a disaster zone and went to Sacrament. The bad attitude went away and in its place was a subdued and quiet attitude - perfect for sacrament. Peet passed the sacrament and was Bishops messenger - as he is every week since he is our only deacon.
The Marriage and Family Relations class was super small today with just me, Donna and Mark, and Linda & Roy. A shame because up till now the lessons have been very generic but this was more everyday useful. Lots of discussion on having a home free of contention even though we know that there will be conflict - how do we keep the conflict from becoming contention and how do we teach that concept to children. My favourite scripture on this is Alma 45:21 which says:
"For behold, because of their wars with the lamanites and the many little dissensions and disturbances which had been among the people, it became expedient that the word of God should be declared among them, yea, and that a regulation should be made throughout the church."
We have lots of wars with spiritual lamanites and certainly there are little dissensions and disturbances in families, so it is expedient that we teach the word of God. Translating to increased study of the scriptures, prayer, gospel discussions, charitable acts etc will decrease contention. Even though it seems counter-intuitive to add more into an already busy life -when the going gets harder than usual, somehow these things reduce stress and contention.
Donna said that she had just listened to a CD by John Lund in which he said 'take your love to your family and your frustrations to the Lord.'
Have also just finished reading Spiritual Intimacy by Wendy Watson Nelson - my favourite line is to the effect that we may be the keeper of some words that will change the way a person feels.





















